You know you’ve failed many times since you’ve started attempting on things. You’ve failed when you attempted to first start walking, you’ve failed to meet your expectations to get those good grades at school, you’ve failed to get your dream job. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Each one of us have gone through that, some might have faced it a lot more than others, but the truth is that we all have been there! But you know what the amazing thing is- the fact that you have attempted. And what could be more amazing than this is that you keep going to achieve it.
So, are you also one of those out there who’s constantly yelling at life for some reasons like not getting the good score you worked hard for, failing to get admission in the college you wished to, not getting the job you really wanted, or you don’t have that one person in your life you wanted to be forever with? Okay pal, let me tell you that you are not alone. We all have been in that place for some or the other reason, losing out all the hopes, allowing ourselves to be trapped in the circle of negativity that never lets us open our minds to think beyond. But, wait for a moment, take a deep breath and think, is your being negative helping out anyways? If I somehow failed at something and I just sit in my room crying over that, it’s not just going to get things any easier. Right? What should I be doing then? Well, it’s a simple two-way thing. Either I decide to go and get it by doing whatever it takes, or I accept it happily. Hey, accepting here doesn’t mean that you are a loser. I do not say that, if you’re not getting a job, or you’re getting rejected constantly then just accept, that you will never be able to get one. 🙂 Of course, you have to work harder towards it and just get it. But for some situations in life, where there is no harm it is better to accept things as they are. Continue reading “Conquer with positivity”
“You are beautiful!”, yes I am very much using this word for you. What makes me say so? But what makes you think that I should not be calling you that? You are beautiful, I am beautiful, this world is beautiful. But, what is beauty anyway? Well, the meaning of “being beautiful” has drastically changed over these years, I mean hell drastically. Years back, beauty was seen in simplicity, it was something that came naturally. People back then used to be ‘satisfied’ with how ever they looked, they considered that beauty. But today, you are considered as beautiful only if you have that slim waistline. 🙂 Isn’t it? Every one is going crazy about losing that extra weight and getting rid of that tummy fat. Yes, after all we are living in the “Insta-book-itter” era, we want to pose for pictures, look fabulously slim and hear praises and have lots and lots of likes. 🙂 That’s why we want that slim body. That’s actually good, at least there is something that keeps us motivated, thank you Social media! 🙂 But hey, please don’t mess that up with beauty. Being slim does not necessarily mean beautiful. Continue reading “Be you, Be beautiful”
Zero is a number which quantifies as a count or as an amount of null size. In the number system, everything is relative to zero i.e, either positive (growing) or negative (shrinking). Our life is certainly the same way. We all have that one “zero” in common and that is the time of our birth. At that very moment our life is just like a zero, at it’s very naive stage denoting the beginning of something. But, as we grow up this zero enters our lives indefinite times, sometimes in the form of a loss, or in those times when we lose hope in everything and give up, or when we feel helpless and drowned. It is then when we must realize that it is completely okay to not feel good sometimes, it is completely okay to give up, and it is completely okay to drown, but what’s not okay is not trying again. What we have to remember is, a zero will never stay forever if we put a little effort to mend it. Even a small amount of our effort makes a difference, just like the mathematics allows it (0+0.000000….1=not zero). Amazing, isn’t it ? 🙂 So is life. Continue reading “Zero – The game changer”
I sometimes wonder that we have a bunch of people out there giving lectures on what life really is, what it’s purpose and true meaning are, and surprisingly we blindly follow on what others say it to be. But, the fact is as everything in this universe is relative, so is life for each one of us. For some, life means “not being dead”, for some it’s an opportunity to do and achieve something, while some can only fight and struggle for their survival, and the remaining ones are those who are living happily for themselves (Eat, work, sleep, enjoy). However, majority of the people in these categories are still never satisfied. And we often say, even I do sometimes, “Oh, If I just had that one thing, that would be all, I would be so happy and I won’t ask for anything else from life.” But, yes we tend to repeat this line time and again. :p Continue reading “Life is ?”