A Beautiful Bond…

With whom do you think you share the most precious bond? Of course your mother, father, brother, sister, grandparents and all in the family. Well, naturally you surely have a special connection with them as you share the same blood. 🙂 But, what about that beautiful bond that you have developed over time with someone you hardly knew when you were born? It could be just anyone, right? Maybe it’s your pet you’re so closely connected to, or maybe someone special with whom you dream about spending your life.

While growing up, we don’t realize how we are in a constant process of creating new connections that can last for a lifetime. In school days, we make lots of friends, and some seem to make a special place in our hearts and live on forever, but then some even break our hearts and move away. Yet, those who stick with us always are the ones we have a special bond with. Someone whom we didn’t know even existed and then suddenly one day they enter our life, and then you can’t imagine your life without them. You start imagining all the phases of your life with them in it.

And then comes that phase of life where everything comes to a still. Why? Because you are going to have to make a decision about your life – choosing the right life partner. When I was a kid, I used to tell my mother that I’m not going to go anywhere and that I’m just gonna stay right beside her. How can I even go with someone I have not known anything about, in my entire life? And my mother just passed a smile worth numerous unsaid words, which I couldn’t understand at that point, but now I do. 🙂 I know we just don’t arrive at this decision by merely knowing a person and developing a likeness towards them. We tend to spend ample time with them, talk to them, get to know them as much as we can, but somewhere in your heart, you know that it’s not possible to get to know someone completely when you haven’t been with them all this time. Then how do you decide? This is where that “beautiful bond” comes into action. It’s that time when the heart wins over everything. When you meet that person, you develop a special connection, you won’t even realize how quick it would be. It would seem that you know the person from infinity times. Yes, believe me, this is exactly how you would feel like. Haven’t you ever wondered, how special this bonding is? You spend your first twenty years or so with your family and friends, and then one day you decide to spend the rest of your years with someone whom you didn’t meet up till this point? That’s the wonder these special bonds have. They are a treasure. Be thankful, if you have it in your life. If not yet, then wait because it’s coming. 🙂


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